It occurred to me last week that - even as horny as we are 99% of the time - that we guys can fall into a rut when it comes to sex. It becomes stagnant, perfunctory, another chore to be accomplished in our busy days, if for no other reason than to ease the ache in our balls, or satisfy our partners. Or to help us fall asleep.
I admit there have been plenty of times this has been the case. After a long day - or even a long week - at work, all I was interested in was relaxing in front of some mindless entertainment on television and then going to bed to sleep. If slumber became an issue, I'd pound out a load just to relax enough to fall asleep. The pleasure of playing with my meat, or fondling my nuts, nor intensity of the orgasm mattered. It was just something I needed to do to encourage sleep. Or, to relieve my aching balls.
What has happened is we've lost touch with ourselves. And, every once in a while, it's important for a man to reacquainted himself - not just with his cock, but with his entire body. To take some time for himself. To rediscover the pleasure.
It's only after we've learned to enjoy ourselves, to revel in our own pleasure, that we can truly give pleasure to others.
Guys, if you have never visited AOM's Self Massage Video Page, you owe it to yourself to go over and watch these video clips Phil has posted. It doesn't matter what your orientation is, these videos will teach you how to reawaken the senses, rediscover the sensations in your body again, and get back to enjoying the pleasure that can be found. Bonus: There's one on delaying orgasm.