The other day, blogger buddy Steve, over at All Natural and More, did a post I found intriguing. A young man had written to Yahoo Questions (here, lifted from Steve's blog):
Is it okay to do with my bro's?!?
I'm 17 and at home I have one big bedroom which I share with my older brothers who are 18, 19 and 21 years old (we have four beds in one room). Anyway since we're always together, it's hard to keep privacy when we're changing or showering and stuff, so we just go naked around each other.
And a lot of times, we get to compare with each other. A couple of times, my brothers and I woke up around the same time and we used the bathroom together to brush our teeth and we would be naked the whole time. We would still have erections from waking up, and my brothers would notice, and we'd start comparing. We'd stand side by side and compare lengths, how we look down there, and even if the other curves. From all this, I learned that my 21 and 19 year old bros have the same length and are bigger than me, while me and my 18 year old brother have the same length when we're hard.
Besides, all of us sleep naked at night so we really get to see each other naked, and since we're all guys it's no big deal. In the morning, our dad would sometimes come in and wake us and our blankets would be on the floor or not covering us, and since we sleep nude, our dad gets to see our morning wood when he comes in our room. But we don't mind if our dad sees us naked even if we have erections. My brothers and I would even walk around the room completely naked even if we have morning erections, and we've seen each other masturbating before (since we share a room, we just decided not to hide it, and just do it in the open even if the other can see. Sometimes, I'd be on my bed and I'd look over and see my brother jerking off on his bed, and I wouldn't mind. And if I felt like it, I'd just take my boxers off and start jerking off if I want to even if my three bros are in the room. We all masturbate anyway, so it's not weird to know that the other does it too. We also get to compare while jerking off sometimes). Since it's just us brothers and our dad (our parents are separated), we even walk around the house in the nude. Sometimes I'd walk to our hallway to get to the bathroom and I'd be naked with a hard-on, and I'd pass my dad and he'd see my erection but he doesn't mind since he's since us naked loads of times.
Sometimes when we're having breakfast with our dad in the kitchen, then one of my brothers would go downstairs completely naked and he'd have an erection from waking up, and he'd just join us at the table like it's nothing! We don't really care about seeing each others' penises since we're all boys in the house, and will we have the same packaging down there! Is this normal to you?!
As usual, my opinion regarding the subject is that there's absolutely nothing wrong in being that open and honest about the male anatomy. (If you want to see the Best Answer, which was pretty much spot on, chosen by readers, go to Steve's blog HERE or use his link in the sidebar ---->)
The thing that is missing, that could have allayed the young man's fears, is the father having an honest and open discussion with his sons. He's taken the easy way out by simply not commenting in any way. Sure, it's more (and better) than some fathers do. But he missed the boat, so to speak, if a son felt the need to ask an internet forum if it's normal for brothers to see one another's boners, compare cock size, and jerk off together.
Years ago, a psychologist acquaintance of mine, told me that not only is it very common for brothers to jerk off together, it's very common for brothers to indulge in mutual jack off as well.
And, as evidenced by the Visconti brothers, a blow job here and there isn't all that unusual either!
My brother and I used to jack off together...
...and stroke one another's boners...
...until we shot our loads...
...every chance we got, so I can attest it's okay and perfectly normal. And it's even particularly more prevalent if (as happened in this case) they grew up sharing the same bedroom.
(If you'd like to read all the answers posted to this young man's question, click here. Though Steve has a link as well and you might enjoy perusing his blog, he's always got some hot posts!)